It is true that caregivers need a break from their day-to-day responsibilities caring for a loved one. While it is ideal to share these responsibilities with a family member or dear friend, it isn’t always possible for caregivers to “switch off” and get away for a needed respite.
However, there are options so that caregivers can get a well-deserved vacation, whether for a day, a weekend, or longer.
Adult Day Services
If a caregiver just wants to get away for a day or has conflicting appointments, adult day services can provide social activities, meals, transportation, and a safe, supervised environment in a stand-alone center, nursing homes, or hospital. Check the directory for a center near you.
Companion Care
A companion can be hired to prepare meals, help with laundry, do light housekeeping, and shop for groceries and perform other errands. The cost will depend on how much and what type of services are offered.
Personal Care Assistants
In addition to services to help around the home, a personal care assistant can help with bathing, dressing, toileting, and grooming. They may provide medical services as well, such as administering medications and helping with mobility. You can search for in-home care here.
Assisted Living Respite Care
Many continuing care retirement communities, assisted living communities, and nursing homes, offer room and board for seniors who need help with everyday tasks. Services may be available for just a day or for several weeks’ duration. Respite Care provides peace of mind for families who appreciate that caregiving professionals are on hand. Some facilities offer respite services only when they are not at full capacity, so a phone call is advised to get the particulars for each community you may have in mind.
An advantage to temporary respite care at an assisted living or nursing home facility, is that it provides a commitment-free way for a senior and caregiver to check out whether the facility might be a good fit down the road when it may be needed for more than just respite care.
Options for Veterans
The Veterans’ Administration offers a number of programs and support for veterans and for wartime veterans who are caring for their spouses. These programs are designed to give the primary caregiver some help and time off. Many local VAs operate adult daycare centers which can be an alternative for respite care. There are also services available for home-based care and homemaker and health care aides. Go to the VA Caregivers website for more information.
Respite care has many benefits, not least of which is to relieve any feelings of guilt on the part of the caregiver for needing and wanting a break from the duties of caregiving. It is a proven fact that caregivers who take care of themselves too, are better equipped to return to caregiving with enthusiasm, love, and compassion.
If you have questions about resources available for respite care or care in general for your loved one, contact Transitions Liquidation Services at 617-513-0433 or email Marie LeBlanc.